Scorpio in Love

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Scorpio in Love

Scorpio (Oct 24th-Nov 22nd) is one of the most sexual signs of the zodiac. They have a mysteriousness about them that just seems to attract lovers. But they are very sensitive and hate feeling vulnerable. They are highly sensitive, so if you try to take advantage of them, they will catch on quickly.

Scorpios are very magnetic and fascinating people who have no problem attracting others to them. But they dislike it when someone tries to dominate them. They must be the leader in every relationship or they will leave.

Scorpio Woman

Scorpio women are emotional and loving, but above all else, they can be demanding. The man who wins the love of a Scorpio woman will have to be able to hold his own ground against her. She has no qualms with telling him exactly what he can and cannot do if he wants to keep her. What would make a man love a Scorpio woman? He loves her because she is amazing, mesmerizing, and irresistible. She can do it all – from entertaining in the living room and being exciting in the bedroom.

A Scorpio woman thinks very highly of love and she has no problem attracting suitors. When she finds someone she thinks is worthy of her love, she will turn on the charm. But she is not looking for anything casual, so if you are, look elsewhere. She desires a close, committed relationship and won't stop looking for one until she finds it. Once she does, she is a very faithful and passionate lover.

Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man seems to magically draw women towards him. He is easy going and likeable, however, he has a dark, mysterious side that often gives him a bad name. If you are just looking to be seduced by him, you should have no problem. He knows exactly how to work his charming ways to get to a woman. As a lover, he seems to understand your every need. Yet, if you are looking for a relationship, you may need to do some work. Scorpio men want relationships, but the emotional intimacy makes them feel vulnerable and they hate that feeling.

Do not try to dominate a Scorpio man – he will run in the other direction! If the relationship starts to tax him emotionally or financially, he will just walk away from it. The turmoil just is not worth it to him.

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The Perfect Date

A Scorpio loves any activities that involve the outdoors, but they especially love water sports. If you live near a lake, suggest water skiing, fishing, or sailing. They also love to attend parties or charity events where they might have the opportunity to meet someone famous.

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Compatible Signs

Scorpios will find they are compatible with Cancerians, as the Scorpio can offer the strength the Cancer is looking for and the Cancer is affectionate and devoted – important attributes to a Scorpio. A Scorpio and Pisces will find their love lasting because they bring out the best in each other. A Capricorn will appreciate a Scorpio's jealousy as it makes them feel secure, so these two should be compatible as well.

Incompatible Signs

A Scorpio should avoid relationships with Aquarius, Aries, Gemini, and Taurus.

If you have met someone you think is absolutely irresistible, they may well be a Scorpio. These fascinating people are mysterious and passionate on the surface, but underneath, they are sensitive and vulnerable, so do not forget that. Check out more personality traits of a Scorpio.

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KB 21/09/2019 at 5:41 am
I have been seeing a capricorn female for a yr I am a scorpio female as well we are the best of everything together and apart but she is so scary to completely give herself cause she is damaged by the past I want to always be friends
Red 21/06/2019 at 5:21 am
I just started dating a Scorpio and so far things are wonderful and I’m a Virgo but I have to say that these are all just generalizations because we need to get a chart done on ourselves and see what all of our signs are are moon sign are rising sign and not just our sun sig. There are many loving couples that I’ve been married for many years with opposing signs just remember everybody’s different. So far what I’ve read is very interesting ...
Jamngirl945 22/05/2019 at 9:00 am
I am a Scorpio woman and I am married to an Aries man. We get along great. I've been with him for 8 years. I was previously married to a Taurus man and let me tell you we fought constantly. He was controlling and emotionally abusive.
Maze 20/04/2019 at 7:24 am
Please ignore previous comment from me. There is a typo which i just edited. ????. I am in a relationship with an aquarian guy and i am a scorpio woman. Air signs are good for water signs. If not earth signs. The air signs are calm and non argumentative. They show water signs where they lack. They help you in transforming into a more balanced human being and gets you to blunt your sharp edges. They make you think and transform you into a more balanced person. This does not happen with fire signs as water and fire clash and water kills the fire sign because the fire sign simply does not have the patience or knack to disarm a scorpio. Water signs if you are not interested in balance are best with water signs. But scorpio always wants to improve for the better.
Maze 20/04/2019 at 7:20 am
I am in a relationship with an aquarian guy and i am a scorpio woman. Air signs are good for water signs. If not earth signs. The air signs are calm and non argumentative. They show water signs where they lack. They help you in transforming into a more balanced human being and gets you to blunt your sharp edges. They make you think and transform you into a more balanced person. This does not happen with fire signs as water and fire clash and water kills the air sign because the air sign simply does not have the patience or knack to disarm a scorpio. Water signs if you are not interested in balance are best with water signs. But scorpio always wants to improve for the better.
AmbitiousScorpio27 02/10/2018 at 4:13 pm
I a scorpio married to a Taurus 11 years now. I've also met/know plenty of scorpio Taurus couples that have been together for years. Also I don't click with Capricorns at all no disrespect but they're annoying lazy and talk entirely too much. Astrology is true to an extent. The traits are on point but the love matches, not so much. Scorpio/Taurus or Scorpio/Pisces are the best. My opinion.
Librrated2 19/12/2017 at 12:14 am
I have been attracted to a sun sign Scorpio male with pisces moon for almost 3 years and we danced together for the first time recently and it felt so...natural ? I am a Taurus with Leo/Cancer moon ( different results with differennt moon calculators)
Nothing might ever transpire but I have een deeply attracted to him for a very long time.
I truly think it is completely wrong for astrologist to make statements about which signs are or are not compatiable without considering the full picture, namely the part that the panets play and a persons time of birth. A strong magnetic attraction to someone comes from somewhere ( e.g. a previous life, destiny etc). So it should not be assumed that some signs are compatible with some whilst others are not. Love speaks from the heart and what the heart loves is not normally guided by how compatible that person an you might be. Attraction is outside of a persons control - it is what it is.
Pisces male 15/09/2017 at 9:15 pm
I am a Pisces male 35 in a platonic relation (so far) with a Scorpio girl 13 years younger. And we instantly got along met on a common chat group 6 years back. I never thought she was so young, then about 2-3 years back got to know her age and I backed off. But she persisted her calls and now we speak about 3-5 hours a day. We r like soul mates and just can't stay away from each other. I mean we might have tried 10 times to part ways because of age but always came back stronger. Most amazing part is we have never met in person the closest we have been is sitting opposite to each other in a cafe, which we do when we really feel the urge to meet. I don't want to meet her as I believe she's too young and will find someone good enough for her but we just getting deeper into the relation.
Not sure how to take it forward.
Sammy 27/07/2017 at 3:00 am
Oh gosh if a scorpio man loves you...trust me god help you.
This is coming from a capricorn woman.
Im very cautious and reserved
I barely open to anyone
But one day as i was sitting in my classroom
And turned to my right
I dont know why but there is a scorpio man in my class who just
Boooooooooooooooooom
Looked stright in my soul
Not my face not my body
But inside me like literally

I was lyk gosh what is this??????????

Its been almost 4 years and he still is chasing me passionately
But being a capricorn im toooooo shy.

But if they really love you trust me
Even god can't help you get them rid of you.
Its crazy trust me..they will have you no matter what.
Olga 25/07/2017 at 1:56 pm
I am a Scorpio and I am with a man with a cancer sign. I can really say we have the same characteristics, Just like we both cold, but at the same time we are very emotional and loving. Every time we have misunderstanding were just so quite and after we talk about it. Its good but sometimes Im so jealous woman I don't know why I'm just hiding my true emotion but I'm a jealous and its very difficult for me to forget our misunderstanding and what he did to me. But I love him. I really really love him
A.S.D 23/07/2017 at 7:07 am
I'm a scorpio and I am with a libra and although we are not meant to be compatible I think that's rubbish. Because I adore her and all her traits I love how kind and compassionate she is. Although as a scorpio we're meant to be argumentive and libras are not I will always listen to her rather then arguing and solve problems together. We may be an exception to the astrology but bottom line I think although I agree to some of the traits we all share it depends on your up bringing and your understanding of things that solve the issues to make a good couple.
KitKat 31/05/2017 at 1:33 am
Honestly I'm a Scorpio and a hate Capricorns and some cancers ,but I really like Taurus'. Not to sure why though . However I do recommend dating Virgos and Taurus' is you are a Scorpio of any gender .
MazzamZuki 15/04/2017 at 11:52 am
I'm a Taurean woman, married to a Scorpion male for four years, happily. Lol. I love being the exception to the astrology rule!
Chandris7 15/04/2017 at 3:39 am
To the lady who is a cancer that Scorpio is not going to give up I broke up with my friend and man this guy made my life hell, he just keep on and keep on until I finally gave in and started back talking to him 2 years later after we broke up, I am a picese and I really have that attitude I don't give a damn and the more I act like I don't care the more he became more attractive to me they don't like feeling like they are being in a committed relationship and I told him if you don't want me more on because I can always find someone who do
Starshine 22/03/2017 at 11:03 pm
Scorpio here. What can be said of the compatibility of a Libra? Just curious...
Sek 11/02/2017 at 9:16 pm
I am a Scorpio female. My first cancer broke my heart, so I stayed away from cancer for years. Fire signs are attracted to me, and I never had much luck with them. Now, many years later, I am with a cancer now and loving it.
To the woman above 62 and her sweetheart who is 29, you go girl!
Life is to be lived!
n)'(nas 29/04/2016 at 9:14 pm
Although I attract every sign. My combo being a Scorpian Fire Dragon woman tend to attract mostly Capricorns, especially the early Capricorns, and Leos love love me but I've only been in a relationship with one Leo. Not a good idea but dynamically sexually compatible. I've dated one libra, one Scorpio, and the rest of the 90% are all early January Capricorns. Hmm...??
scorpiogang 29/03/2016 at 9:13 pm
Okay. Im a scorpio , im just a teenage girl. None the less its true when it comes to the people who we aren't compatible with. I really liked a saggitarius and lets say his personality was amazing to me but they are very careless. Im amazed that they arent on our incompatible list.
Oracle 10/03/2016 at 4:49 pm
All this is still generic, apart from demographic factors there are three basic kind of scorpios. Most evolved being the eagles and common ones the nocturnal scorpios while the third variety grey lizards. Its very easy yet equally difficult to sense the different kinds. So that will depend as well.
Kat 31/01/2016 at 6:11 am
Haha Gabby, we don't by any chance know the same bloke, do we? Your description is uncanny!
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