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Gemini in Love

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Gemini men and women (May 22nd-June 21st) are among the most charming of the zodiac – and also the most fickle. Always looking for love and excitement, Geminis fall in and out of love quicker than most. They enjoy the chase, but once caught, they often move on. But, if you fall in love with a Gemini, you will definitely enjoy it while it lasts!

Gemini Women

Gemini women fantasise about being femme fatales, but that rarely happens. Unfortunately, they have neither the time nor patience and find many men are not worthy of it. They can be enchanting, though, and seem to cast a spell over the men in which they are interested. But even long-term relationships such as marriage can be more friendly than steamy.

The dual nature of a Gemini woman will confuse many men. She wants to be loved and feel secure, made to feel she is the most important woman in the world. And at the same time, she needs constant stimulation and originality. She must be stimulated both physically and emotionally. She can be unpredictable – falling out of love just as easily as she fell in it. She tends to be restless and prefers to have more than one man in her life. She may say her love is greater than yours is, but that is just a way to control the relationship. When in love, Gemini women can be possessive and jealous.

Gemini Men

Gemini men are witty, charming, interesting and generous – one of the best dates you will have. He seems to draw women in, but tends to get bored very easily, so do not expect to stay in his life very long.

What is the key to a Gemini man's success? He simply loves women. He is interested in all aspects of a woman – what she has to say, how she feels, what she wants. But Gemini men crave fun and adventure. When the excitement ends, so does the relationship. Gemini men are both scared and drawn to dramatic, emotional women – maybe because they have trouble revealing themselves. Why do Gemini men move from one woman to the next? It could be because as a twin, he is looking for his perfect twin. His love may not last long, but enjoy it while it does.

The Perfect Date

Geminis like variety and get bored easily, so plan a date that will keep them on their toes all night. A night out at the casino, with all the excitement and noise may be a great choice, though not very romantic. Geminis love the theatre, arts and music, so a play, museum, or concert would be a good first date. Geminis also love to talk, so if you do want a secluded night alone, plan to make plenty of enticing conversation.

Geminis pride themselves on knowing a little about everything – and a lot about nothing. So choose a date that is superficial rather than deep.

Compatible Signs

Geminis and Aries are a great match – they make both good friends and great lovers. Geminis and Leos tend to provide the affection each other needs and genuinely have a fun time together. Gemini and Libras both love to spend money. If they can keep a tight reign on that, they make a good match. Gemini and Aquarius get long famously, being both devoted and affectionate.

Incompatible Signs

Geminis should avoid relationships with Taurus, other Geminis, Virgos and Pisces. Geminis are fun and exciting people to be with, but do not be surprised if you cannot get in their head's easily. They tend to use their charm to hide themselves deep within. They get bored easily, so if you are in love with a Gemini, try to keep things fresh and new to keep them stimulated. Check out the personality traits of a Gemini

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I don't know if this will be helpful but I just want to try. I'm a Gemini with quite a number of issues largest of it being that I don't seem to trust anyone enough in my life to talk to about anything concerning my feelings. I have the most awkward relationship with a Scorpio guy. Sometimes I feel like he wants to talk to me and then when I try to talk he suddenly shuts me out and when I'm keeping my distance he's suddenly ready to talk. I like playing games but I'm really so done with him this time. Also, I recently started liking a Virgo guy who seems very cold most of the time. But I think he feels something and just isn't willing to give in. What do I do? I really want to talk to someone.
Realdj - 30-Aug-17 @ 6:04 PM
I've just broken up with my Gemini girl..im Pisces..she would be nice one minute then find a fight the next.. I could never talk about or resolve issues as she got angry and would never divulge.. I wanted her to feel free and accepted her male friends even when they hit on her and she stayed friends with them .. I felt more and more betrayed when she would dance with them in front of me.. she l8ked a drink and to party and I don't drink which became an issue.. I left after another drunken argument which was of course my fault.. I'm hurting as she seems to have just moved on and doesn't care.. the physical was very good but nothing ever felt deep or real .. she would also lie and I see trust and honest as true love not just a word.. how do I get over her?
pj - 19-Aug-17 @ 8:44 AM
well lately I have been seeing other people cuz of course I am a Gemini woman but I haven't been sleeping with him I just like to hang out with with the guys and then the next I switch it up and hang with my girl butI'm starting not liking him or rather I hate the way he treats me but he's a wonderful father he has custody a great job with our son but the night I caught him cheating I was the one that was supposed to go over there I did other things and went a little later on and found her therethe app that I was done with him and he put me out and also her that really confused me and actually now that I think about it that was the first time he ever says he he loved me when I was done why is that men cheat and say sorry and think we just supposed to forgive them then when we cheat we the worst person in the world but I forgive him and I let him know that and of course I love him but Mama didn't raise no damn fool and actually I'm a little to fly after I had my baby got a job got myself together and shined on him send the bed part he told me I was trying it on them and I wasn't even trying to because I actually love him and I want him to see the person that'll I I am I'm very loyal to him what do I do I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but I can't deal with a broken heartI'm sorry life too short to be going through a lot of changes with a persnsomebody please help me
China - 11-Jun-17 @ 4:01 AM
hi my name is China I need help I'm in love with a forty-one-year-old Gemini man I am a 31-year old Gemini woman that has a five-month-old baby by this Gemini guy I fell in love with this guy I should have did a background check on him because now he's playing with it seem like I can't never have an intelligent conversation with him without arguing he continues to accuse me of cheating on him but I caught him cheating on me and the girl said they would have been talking for a few months and at that time I had just had my baby boy I love him but I'm not willing to be with him after I called him with this girlso I completely fell back to co-parent with him but it seems like he always find a way to get up under my skin but he act like he don't want me you don't love me I don'tI don't know what to do he think I'm a compulsive liar and I'm very honest with him but he always have he always have something negative to say to me or try to put me down I guess to make himself feel better what do I do in this situation I actually love him and I have a baby pleas be honest I need honest advice
China - 11-Jun-17 @ 3:33 AM
i ama gemini n i keep falling in love with other geminis i really want to know y is tht so n also other gemnis fall in love wit me
tasie - 28-May-17 @ 7:28 PM
yeah...I will am in love with a virgo boy... at the same time I also think I have feelings for Libra boy as well. I'm really compatible with the Libra boy I think of him as my little brother though. Whenever I see the Virgo boy my heart starts beating like crazy, wishing I could be with him......I don't know who to really choose
Gemini - 28-Apr-17 @ 12:37 AM
okay i have feelings for a pisces girl. I love everything she does or says. she is one beautiful woman but i don't trust myself. i'd rather die than lie other and hurt her feelings. We are friends but i think that she wants me to ask her out but i am a typical gemini not that i flirt with every other girl, tbh, since i have seen her i haven't thought about anyone else. what should i do?
UPisceslove - 22-Oct-16 @ 7:55 PM
Okay, so I'm a Gemini girl, currently dating a guy who's a Libra, and right now, we're really awkward. Oh, what am I saying? I'm the one awkward. I know Geminis are usually really chatty, but ever since I started dating this guy, I can barely say hi to him in the morning. I thought of breaking up with him, but I can't do it. I REALLY LIKE HIM! Is this supposed to happen when a Gemini girl starts to date someone? How do I start talking to him normally? Also, did I mention that he's my first love AND boyfriend?
Pandageek103 - 10-Oct-16 @ 3:04 AM
Gem here, I was engaged to a Pisces man and in all honesty loved him and am still very close with him. That relationship was wonderful I completely messed up due to the fact that like we're social butterflies and he's more into the capturing a butterfly and displaying it at the time. Believe it or not Pisces are a better match then the majority that are not compatible with gems. Ok I've also dated a Cancer wonderful but very insecure when falling in love, plays games to upset for actual assurance of your heart. Leo #1 option for a Gemini female all the ingredients in your favorite bowl. Trust when I say this.
MJK - 27-Sep-16 @ 6:35 PM
I'm a girl and I've liked this Gemini female for a while. She happens to be one of my closest friends. She is pretty unpredictable and I'm so confused at times on how she feels because she said to be I don't like girls I'm sorry but at our lunch table my friend asked would you date a girl and she said I might if I like this person I like them no matter the gender and it's been known that Geminis are two faced (not all of them but a vast amount of them) and I don't know if I should try to make her like me. Not force her of course but do things that will interest or I don't know if I should really just stop wasting my time and move on which I've been trying to do and it's really hard for me. I'm a Taurus btw. Please help me and thank you.
giselle - 15-Sep-16 @ 8:01 AM
I'm a Scorpio women, with a crush on a Gemini male. I say crush but it's kinda more than that, and no matter how much I try to get over him I can't. We've been friends for years, his aunt and cousins are practically like my family as well and it's been almost a year. We've had various moments that have been hot and heavy, and with a hint of something deeper than just friendship. Like our relationship is playful and there is a lot of banter between us but recently we had an argument that was particularly venomous, and shortly after he experienced a loss in his family we haven't spoke since the argument since he isn't one for talking to say the least but something happened between me and another male and he found out about it and turned around and said that he doesn't care what /I/ do, which I find a peculiar specification as he's never directly mentioned me to anyone before and the same night he spoke to my father and didn't say anything to me and recently he's been hanging about with these two girls which he never did beforehand and to me it seems a bit like jealousy but I'm not sure as I've never known him to be jealous. I guess I'm just wondering, does this sound like something a Gem would do if he were jealous. Act disinterest, not talk to me and start hanging out with other girls after finding out what happened between me and another guy? PS: The entire time we were growing up, since we kinda have live in the same area and are around the same people all the time they have said to me on numerous occasions that they think there is something between us. His aunt and cousin straight up told me they thought we were going to get together at some point, also a few people who didn't really know us as well as the others thought that we were a thing which I think says something about our chemistry. What should I do? And does this sound like a jealous Gemini or am I reading too much into things?
AJxx - 14-Jun-16 @ 10:39 PM
I'm a Scorpio women, with a crush on a Gemini male. I say crush but it's kinda more than that, and no matter how much I try to get over him I can't. We've been friends for years, his aunt and cousins are practically like my family as well and it's been almost a year. We've had various moments that have been hot and heavy, and with a hint of something deeper than just friendship. Like our relationship is playful and there is a lot of banter between us but recently we had an argument that was particularly venomous, and shortly after he experienced a loss in his family we haven't spoke since the argument since he isn't one for talking to say the least but something happened between me and another male and he found out about it and turned around and said that he doesn't care what /I/ do, which I find a peculiar specification as he's never directly mentioned me to anyone before and the same night he spoke to my father and didn't say anything to me and recently he's been hanging about with these two girls which he never did beforehand and to me it seems a bit like jealousy but I'm not sure as I've never known him to be jealous. I guess I'm just wondering, does this sound like something a Gem would do if he were jealous. Act disinterest, not talk to me and start hanging out with other girls after finding out what happened between me and another guy? PS: The entire time we were growing up, since we kinda have live in the same area and are around the same people all the time they have said to me on numerous occasions that they think there is something between us. His aunt and cousin straight up told me they thought we were going to get together at some point, also a few people who didn't really know us as well as the others thought that we were a thing which I think says something about our chemistry. What should I do? And does this sound like a jealous Gemini or am I reading too much into things?
AJxx - 14-Jun-16 @ 10:20 PM
I'm a Scorpio women, with a crush on a Gemini male. I say crush but it's kinda more than that, and no matter how much I try to get over him I can't. We've been friends for years, his aunt and cousins are practically like my family as well and it's been almost a year. We've had various moments that have been hot and heavy, and with a hint of something deeper than just friendship. Like our relationship is playful and there is a lot of banter between us but recently we had an argument that was particularly venomous, and shortly after he experienced a loss in his family we haven't spoke since the argument since he isn't one for talking to say the least but something happened between me and another male and he found out about it and turned around and said that he doesn't care what /I/ do, which I find a peculiar specification as he's never directly mentioned me to anyone before and the same night he spoke to my father and didn't say anything to me and recently he's been hanging about with these two girls which he never did beforehand and to me it seems a bit like jealousy but I'm not sure as I've never known him to be jealous. I guess I'm just wondering, does this sound like something a Gem would do if he were jealous. Act disinterest, not talk to me and start hanging out with other girls after finding out what happened between me and another guy? PS: The entire time we were growing up, since we kinda have live in the same area and are around the same people all the time they have said to me on numerous occasions that they think there is something between us. His aunt and cousin straight up told me they thought we were going to get together at some point, also a few people who didn't really know us as well as the others thought that we were a thing which I think says something about our chemistry. What should I do? And does this sound like a jealous Gemini or am I reading too much into things?
AJxx - 14-Jun-16 @ 10:16 PM
I'm a Pisces woman that has fallen in love with a Gemini man too! I love everything about him. I can't say yet that you've made a mistake... I'd say just keep it fun and spontaneous so he stays interested. Can't always depend on astrology when it says who's compatible and incompatible. Just see where it goes :)
Hgpnpeace - 28-Apr-16 @ 10:09 AM
Im a Gemini women in love with a taurus man.....hes the first to ever truly get under my skin.I cant let him go no matter how hard i try, even when i notice other boys its not the same. Is that even possible, Taurus and Gemini? What about Gemini and Virgo? Confused and hurting.....
Sam - 6-Jan-16 @ 6:50 AM
I'm a Gemini man who is in love with cancer woman.I've been in a relationship with a gap,which I wanna bridge it.Is there anyone who will help me solidify this by helping me out with this issue?Any advice for me?
Presa1 - 11-Dec-15 @ 9:43 PM
Saggem, I hope you see this... But in a Gemini woman and if she's already told you how she feels and wants you, then she wants you to take the next step and make things happen and make her yours
lost Monique - 12-Nov-15 @ 8:03 PM
A real Gemini n I don't know if I can fall in love. Cos i know I most often get fed up and therefore I find it difficult to accept proposals. I don't know wat to do
Vim - 6-Nov-15 @ 2:40 PM
Ive been madly in love with a gemini women for over 2 years now. Our relationship has been platonic, hot and heavey tension, to not speaking, to now not sure where we stand. We've both expressed how much we've missed another. And im still very much in love. Ive lost her once and ive accepted that we should only be friends. I dont want to lose her again. But she has been showing signs and with little to leas words have been expressing her feelings for me which i know can be hard for her. Stuck between and rock in a hard place. I believe i will let her run the course that she needs.We both have gotten out of relationships recently we should have never been in. And since then, after being reunited, we both see how perfect we are for one another. It has just been difficult for us to admit that. Hopeful, yet cautious.
Saggem - 11-Oct-15 @ 11:46 AM
I've been seeing my Scorpio male for a year now and what a tough year its been. I have grown to love him within this time and things were going fine but now that its been a year, When do i bring up the topic of commitment? Cause I'm certain i want to be with him but i don't want to get hurt cause he still may not be ready...help lol
Danie - 5-Oct-15 @ 6:53 AM
Mari - Your Question:
I have been crushing on a Scorpio man for about 3 months. He sends me mixed signals and I can't understand him. I know it's really rare for a Gemini and a Scorpio to work out but I truly like him and I would do anything just to be with him. But I guess not everything we wish happens

Our Response:
Why not make the first move...it may not work out but you won't know if you don't try! Here's what Scorpios are like when they're in love - do you recognise any of the signs?
ExploreAstrology - 6-Aug-15 @ 2:44 PM
I have been crushing on a Scorpio man for about 3 months. He sends me mixed signals and I can't understand him. I know it's really rare for a Gemini and a Scorpio to work out but I truly like him and I would do anything just to be with him. But I guess not everything we wish happens
Mari - 6-Aug-15 @ 7:13 AM
I am a Gemini man in love with Virgo woman. We fought alot but I love her too much and sometimes I got easily bored and my mibd just swutched off. Please advice me as I don't wanna lose her.
Sarel - 2-Jul-15 @ 3:47 PM
I'm a Pisces and I fall in love with a gemini, and my question is that did I make a mistake?
Pisces - 26-Apr-15 @ 6:33 AM
I'm a Gemini. My problem though is im madly in love with a scorpio. I know its easy for me to fall in and out of love especially with a scorpio and his carm. But i have been madly in love with this scorpio for three years. I dont want to give up on my love for him nor do i want to give up on him. Any suggestions on what i can do would be much liked. Please help.
Gina - 24-Mar-15 @ 9:57 PM
I am a Gemini women but have the traits of the gemini man and women mixed. 2 geminis don't work. It works for a while then you start pushing it to work while it doesn't. It's not worth the time.
Begin - 4-Mar-15 @ 3:46 AM
so I'm a Taurus and I ahve a Gemini boyfriend who is 6 years younger and it seems to be working although it is as they say work - our sex life is incredible and I am apparently not a typical Taurus since I love thrills, excitement and adventure and provide all three to my Gemini which keeps us interesting - he may not be a typical Gemini as he also loves the quiet side of my Taurus so maybe he's got some planets on earth -
V - 3-Feb-15 @ 10:39 PM
I am a Gemini Man who has dated 3 Pisces women.The initial attraction is that they talk a big talk all three about all the things they do, but when it came to doing thinks she never wanted to do anything, but go to restaurants and eat or the movies.God forbid I recommend something physical. I found them to all be a bit messy in there house and also paranoid someone is always talking about them orwe had to talk low in her apartment because neighbors were listeningand a big Dud in Bed ........WTF I thought they were suppose to be good in bed all three a big fat Dud! Now when I find out a women is a Pisces I keep them as friends, but even that doesn't last they sure don't have a problem asking for things which is a big turn off for me.So now when I hear Pisces I run as far as I can.None of my friends who are other signs have had any luck with these needy, weak women either.
Mr E - 1-Jan-15 @ 7:40 PM
I am really confused. Do geminis and scorpios get along?
blah blah - 5-Oct-14 @ 6:15 PM
This is also true for people with gemini moons. Unfortunately mostly the truest part of all is, they get bored and they don't like too much emotion, it basically drowns the air out of them and soon after they completely vanish. I find the twin part true also. Because both gemini sun and some with gemini moon basically don't exactly know what they want because their twin personality always changes within minutes. I could always tell if my gem moon man felt uneasy about something, he would take a big breath and contemplate in his mind... Agree with me then the next day he would feel guilty because his mind had changed or probably because he really was conflicted with being commited. They don't really like commitment much.. Which breaks my heart because you can sit with them for hours like there was no break up and reminisce of the beautiful moments and you think wow they still care, but they quickly dissapear and some re appear months later. Only usually to revisit an emotion they were originally confused about and then gone again.... Then maybe back again a year later. They're highly unpredictable when they know you love them... They just can't phatom the idea that you are their last hope. They need variety. And me being a Leo with virgo moon, has taught me a lesson to withhold my emotions, even when they're freely expressing theirs. Because you trigger their dissapearance act once the challenge of having you emotionally is done. Off to find someone more mysterious and withholding. So girls.... Don't hurt yourselves over a gemini or doubt your looks or whatever you think caused them to vanish because seriously.. It's usually because they don't like commitment and they don't handle anything deeper than "I like you" they're best kept as friends because they mostly only see you as 'close' friend too... Untill they propose, even still.
Ourdestiny - 21-Sep-14 @ 1:53 PM
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