Virgo in Love

Virgos are often one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac. They are so careful to conceal their emotions; they are often seen as cold or uncaring. But don't let the Virgos fool you! Underneath their shield is a sensitive, sensuous being, very capable of giving as well as receiving love.

Virgo Women

On the outside, Virgo women seem calm, cool, and collected, almost to the point of being remote. But, do not let her outward demeanor fool you. Virgo women have emotions surging through their veins, but these emotions so intense, they often scare her. She can be seen as reserved or aloof because of she realises the intensity of her emotions and is trying to control them through self-discipline. Her distant nature also helps her ward off the advances of the wrong men.

Like all Earth signs, Virgo is a mysterious mixture of both sensuality and conservatism. Virgo women are often very cautious when becoming involved with others. She weighs relationships very carefully because she fears ending up trapped with the wrong man. Because of this, falling in love may take some time. As a relationship grows and the Virgo woman learns to trust her mate, she will reveal her sensitive side. The Virgo woman doesn't mind waiting for Mr. Right. In fact, she would rather stay home, curled up with a good book than date Mr. Wrong. She is a believer in true love and once she finds it, her control will loosen. She will become a passionate, sensitive lover, but only once she is sure you are the one.

Virgo Men

Like Virgo women, Virgo men also put on the façade of being totally in control of their emotions. He can be cautious, yet also sensitive and adoring when with the right mate. Virgo men often have a problem expressing their deepest feelings. He is often attracted to his opposite - a woman that is extroverted and lively. But this often causes problems in his love life as emotional people and situations both attract and disturb him.

In the long run, the Virgo man is looking for a woman of high standards. He can be seen as demanding and has a way of making his dissatisfaction with his woman known. While a woman might see this as bothersome, she needs to realise the demands and faultfindings are proof that he truly cares or he would not bother. Do not expect him to romance you in the classical Hollywood movie way. There may not be candlelight dinners or roses, but a Virgo man can offer a women loyalty and passion beyond her wildest dreams.

The Perfect Date

What type of date should you take a Virgo woman on or expect from a Virgo man? Because Virgos like to take things nice and slow at first, something with a quiet setting like a café or movie (nothing to risqué) is a great first date. Remember that for some Virgos dating doesn't come easy because they have a hard time relaxing and letting their guards down. So don't try to overdo it, especially on the first date.

Virgos also enjoy visiting museums or something as simple as a long walk. If you want to date a Virgo man, suggest an arcade. They are so analytical, they are sure to love it!

Compatible Signs

Which signs are compatible with Virgos? A Taurus and Virgo have much in common and the Taurus' strong passions may ignite those of the Virgo. Cancers are affectionate, yet not forceful and Virgos appreciate that. While there can be a problem with both signs being overcritical, they will certainly draw each other out of their shells. Amazingly enough, Virgos are often very compatible with others of their own sign. In fact, they tend to bring out the best in each other. Scorpios are fiercely loyal, which makes Virgos feel loved. They also admire each other's minds. Because Virgos are often perfectionists, they mesh well with Capricorn's drive and ambition.

Incompatible Signs

A Virgo should avoid relationships with Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius, and Pisces.

Some signs find Virgos a bit too demanding and distant. But, if you are in love with a Virgo, try to understand them better and appreciate their good traits. Knowing that their demanding nature only shows that they care for you may help make things a little easier on you. Also remember that they will take relationships slowly. Love between any two signs is possible if both are willing to compromise and appreciate the other sign for who they are.