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Virgo in Love

By: Libby Pelham BA - Updated: 16 Mar 2017 | comments*Discuss
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Virgos (Aug 24th-Sept 23rd) are often one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac. They are so careful to conceal their emotions; they are often seen as cold or uncaring. But don't let the Virgos fool you! Underneath their shield is a sensitive, sensuous being, very capable of giving as well as receiving love.

Virgo Women

On the outside, Virgo women seem calm, cool, and collected, almost to the point of being remote. But, do not let her outward demeanour fool you. Virgo women have emotions surging through their veins, but these emotions so intense, they often scare her. She can be seen as reserved or aloof because of she realises the intensity of her emotions and is trying to control them through self-discipline. Her distant nature also helps her ward off the advances of the wrong men.

Like all Earth signs, Virgo is a mysterious mixture of both sensuality and conservatism. Virgo women are often very cautious when becoming involved with others. She weighs relationships very carefully because she fears ending up trapped with the wrong man. Because of this, falling in love may take some time. As a relationship grows and the Virgo woman learns to trust her mate, she will reveal her sensitive side.

The Virgo woman doesn't mind waiting for Mr Right. In fact, she would rather stay home, curled up with a good book than date Mr Wrong. She is a believer in true love and once she finds it, her control will loosen. She will become a passionate, sensitive lover, but only once she is sure you are the one.

Virgo Men

Like Virgo women, Virgo men also put on the façade of being totally in control of their emotions. He can be cautious, yet also sensitive and adoring when with the right mate. Virgo men often have a problem expressing their deepest feelings. He is often attracted to his opposite - a woman that is extroverted and lively. But this often causes problems in his love life as emotional people and situations both attract and disturb him.

In the long run, the Virgo man is looking for a woman of high standards. He can be seen as demanding and has a way of making his dissatisfaction with his woman known. While a woman might see this as bothersome, she needs to realise the demands and fault findings are proof that he truly cares or he would not bother. Do not expect him to romance you in the classical Hollywood movie way. There may not be candlelight dinners or roses, but a Virgo man can offer a women loyalty and passion beyond her wildest dreams.

The Perfect Date

What type of date should you take a Virgo woman on or expect from a Virgo man? Because Virgos like to take things nice and slow at first, something with a quiet setting like a café or movie (nothing to risqué) is a great first date. Remember that for some Virgos dating doesn't come easy because they have a hard time relaxing and letting their guards down. So don't try to overdo it, especially on the first date.

Virgos also enjoy visiting museums or something as simple as a long walk. If you want to date a Virgo man, suggest an arcade. They are so analytical, they are sure to love it!

Compatible Signs

Which signs are compatible with Virgos? A Taurus and Virgo have much in common and their strong passions may ignite those of the Virgo. Cancerians are affectionate, yet not forceful and Virgos appreciate that. While there can be a problem with both signs being overcritical, they will certainly draw each other out of their shells.

Amazingly enough, Virgos are often very compatible with others of their own sign. In fact, they tend to bring out the best in each other. Scorpios are fiercely loyal, which makes Virgos feel loved. They also admire each other's minds. Because Virgos are often perfectionists, they mesh well with Capricorn's drive and ambition.

Incompatible Signs

A Virgo should avoid relationships with Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius, and Pisces.

Some signs find Virgos a bit too demanding and distant. But, if you are in love with a Virgo, try to understand them better and appreciate their good traits. Knowing that their demanding nature only shows that they care for you may help make things a little easier on you. Also remember that they will take relationships slowly. Love between any two signs is possible if both are willing to compromise and appreciate the other sign for who they are.

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I Found out all the time my x cancer wasn't being with me for five months he was writing other women on the internet we barely talked anyways So basically he was a lier and never loyal .What's interesting Joe calls himself 007 like James Bond I wish him the best but I wish he would stop telling his friends and family were together I am content and happy with myself.I do think about how I miss my soulmate he is in heaven it was a accident.He was a capacorn.sorry for the miss spell I know one day I shall meet another one who brings my soul alive and only wants to be with me sending love to all good luck ladies
Never Date A Cancer - 16-Mar-17 @ 9:39 AM
I've dated her in middle and hs and I mest up the first time she wanted to take a break in my head break up but really she just needed time to think whatever was going throughher mind being a Virgo I totally understand that now only if I wasn't so dumb well I messed up by getting in another relationship so fast wasn't even worth it I felt dumb we would walk past each other almost every day at school she still had feelings for me and was still upset but what she wanted was for me to apologize and make an effort to take her back she wanted to see if she was worth it to mebut I didn't realize that knowing me: c God I love her so much well a year goes by and we've tried 2 other times but still wasn't working out but it wasn't like I don't love you break up any way we've stayed friends since then and talked and said. We missed each other how you doing and what not. Then I came back out of state and I was texting her a bit to hangout at first I was really making an effort to txt her but should be short with me so I would feel like she wasn't interested but she would hmu a few times and asked to hangout and called me cute and she kinda wanted me to kiss her one night but you see I want a really committed relationship with her and love her like no other and protect her she's such a beautiful soul man
I.l.y.s.a.s.f.m - 18-Mar-16 @ 8:12 AM
In love with my virgo we are both virgos........it's a roller coaster but he's everything I want apparently a higher power feels different about wat I need because we're broken up again for the billionth time in 5 years
Samara - 11-Dec-15 @ 11:11 PM
I, a 46yr old Virgo Woman (9/18), just met a 39 yr old Virgo Man (9/11).So far, the conversation is wonderful and effortless. Great Sense of Humor, very mentally stimulating and we are looking forward to seeing where this will go... All feedback welcomed
Sassy - 24-Sep-14 @ 7:14 PM
This is so true..I present myself calm but I have emotions rumbling inside me..Also, I would rather have a "simple" date rather than go out...and I have a guard up because I don't want to get hurt
Asaurah - 13-Jul-13 @ 2:05 AM
Hi, some time back a women (kanya Rashi) convryher love to me& i also agree her proposal.But fortunately or unfortunately i am also a Kanya Rashi Man. my question isthis relationship continue. She is honest to me thanks, sundaram,
sppu - 20-Jun-12 @ 10:30 AM
I've been talking to this guy I really like a lot & I am just curious if I scared him off or not? He's a cancer/boar & I'm a virgo/dog :# (woof woof). We both agreed that we we're looking for that "special person" in our lives, but we weren't in a relationship or anything. I asked him to come meet me & my family at a BBQ, but we had a change in plans. We had a date and he brought up going to meet my family. I told him that it wouldn't be a good idea at the time. He says he's not looking for a relationship right now because he has a sketchy past & he wants to be really good friends. It's been like two weeks since and it just seems like he's been avoiding me. Is there anyway I can fix this & how or where did I go wrong? ;(
ms. worrywart :/ - 2-Jun-12 @ 10:43 PM
virgo male 13th september virgo woman 9th sept. electic feeling
crissy - 15-Feb-12 @ 9:40 PM
my Venus is in virgo. sounds so much like me i feel like crying
anonymous - 28-Jan-12 @ 11:07 PM
never new a virgo man could be so caring and loving
melia - 13-Jul-11 @ 5:32 PM
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